Grandparents

                   GRANDPARENTS

       

                Grandparents are known as the root of the family. They are experienced and knowledgeable and share their valuable life lessons to assist the newer generations learn and grow. They serve their children and grandchildren selflessly and help them become better citizenry .

Joint Family System: A Boon for the Kids

Here are a few factors that support this ideology:

Bonding:

           In a joint family system when a child stays with grandparents, uncles, aunts and cousins, he learns how to bond with different kinds of people. Such kids seldom have difficulty bonding with people when they step out as compared to those who just see their parents or domestic help for most part of the day.

Valuable Lessons for Life:

            When the kids are in their growing stage and need to be taught valuable lessons to help them understand life better, parents are often busy with their career and hardly get to spend quality time with them and teach them the nitty-gritties of life. Grandparents are far more experienced and often get to spend much more time with the kids in a joint family system. Children living in a joint family thus learn good moral values and other valuable lessons for life.

Broadens their Horizons:

              Children often tend to imitate us. When they stay in a nuclear family they often adapt the habits of mother or father and start behaving in a certain manner. However, staying in a joint family broadens their perspective. They come in contact with different people and learn how a single task can be done in different ways and choose the way they like the best rather than blindly imitating one.

Sharing and Caring:

              Though the kid gets to enjoy the corporate of various relations living during a joint family system, he's not the only point of focus. He understands that every big and small thing brought is not wholly and solely for him and is to be shared among the members. It thus helps develop the habit of sharing and makes him more sensitive towards the needs of others.

More Fun:

              All the special occasions such as birthdays and festivals become all the more special when you celebrate it together.

Support System:

               Grandparents act as a great support system for the family. You can count on them anytime. As they get older , they also require attention and care and joint family fulfils their requirement too.

Conclusion:

             The joint family system is said to be the best for the growth and development of the children. Though the concept is slowly fading away, some people still prefer it over the more popular nuclear family system for the aforementioned reasons.